“ She could also tell with equal speed if a man would “fit” and fill her aggressive sexual daydream. She told me that she didn’t even have to talk to such a man to know that there would be good sexual chemistry. She could tell from a “look,” a certain carriage, a special “energy” if he would be an insensitive and aggressive “taker” in bed. Such a “look” would trigger a familiar feeling in her, a feeling for alertness, of tension, and then of excitement. On the occasions she had sex with such men, she was invariably correct in her assessment of the man’s sexual proclivities.
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From Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies, by Dr. Michael J. Bader. He’s writing about one of his clients.
This is *exactly* my characterization of how I am able to tell which women to pick up when I am on the prowl. I can just sense from someone through some kind of energy that she’ll be “all that” in bed, or if I am looking for someone to “teach,” that she’s curious and wanting someone to take her there. Very, very rarely have I been wrong.
